Are You An Alpha Female?
For a long time, I would have said no to being an Alpha Female. In fact, I would have said I was more beta. The truth is you aren’t necessarily born with the trait, in my opinion. It is all about confidence. In my younger days, I was very docile in all things and it stands to reason that had a lot to do with my life circumstances, to be honest.
After forty though, that seemed to all change for me in a lot of ways. Today, I am a blend of both. Maybe your thinking that doesn’t make sense, you’re either Alpha or not. With women, that is not the case. You can be an Alpha Female in some areas and not others. If you are at all confused, here are the signs of an Alpha Female:
Signs You Might Be An Alpha Female
To be an Alpha, male or female, you are a natural leader. With females especially, they are looked to for leadership in their social group. You can always tell which one it is because of those around her, take cues and seem to look to her for what they are supposed to do. Socially, she often holds them together and when she leaves, the group will seem to be at loose ends.
An alpha female is very sure of herself, self-sufficient and confidence oozes from her pores. She knows when she walks in a room all eyes are on her which has everything to do with presence, not looks.Thought this woman usually commands attention she doesn’t need it, she is all too aware of what she brings to the table.
She will always tell you what she thinks and know how to say it in the right way. That doesn’t in any way mean she is always right or thinks she is always right. Quite the opposite Alpha Woman will be the first to admit her mistakes and move on.
Alpha females thrive on the challenge because they get things done and know how to get what they want. They don’t keep up with trends because being unique is part of the appeal. She understands she can’t have everything or do everything but she will have what she, personally wants and usually with her own money. Being self-sufficient is key to her happiness.
Alpha Females & Relationships
Are you in love with an Alpha Female? That can be really hard. The reason often they gravitate toward the Alpha Male is because their needs are specific and a Beta Male over time will bore them and drain their energy. Beta males tend to be insecure and ever searching for validation and she has no time for that.
They need to be challenged by their partner because on some level all of life is about competing so they need to be with someone who constantly inspires them to go one step further because she never stops reaching to be even better and her partner if he wants to hold onto her won’t either.
Since strength is at her core, she requires absolute trust. This strong woman has so much going on she will rarely feel comfortable being soft unless the trust is there but they need a partner to take the pressure off.
Your Alpha Female needs to have a mate who is at their level or above it in life because they don’t have the time nor desire to have to hold you up and will leave you behind in a heartbeat. You have to have your own in all ways. Your own life in a way separate from hers because she needs her space. She will have her own and expect you at times to just leave her alone.
Lastly, an Alpha Female will always need a partner who is strong enough to stand up to them. We all get lost in our own crap and alphas tend to intimidate other people into doing their bidding whether they realize it or not so their partner has to be able to read it when necessary and take them to the task.
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