Soulmate Or Mr. Right Now?
With the advent of Internet dating, it’s become easier than ever before to meet potential romantic partners. As you venture into the world of singledom and go on a date every now and then, it can be hard to know exactly what you are looking for a soulmate
. If you want a cherub to shoot an arrow through your heart the first time you set eyes on the guy that you’re going to end up marrying complete with violins, bells, whistles, and butterflies, you might be in for a rude awakening. This doesn’t tend to happen. Ever. That doesn’t mean a romance can’t be a slow burner or that romance can’t blossom from friendship. But how do you know if the guy you are dating is the one for you?
He Tells His Friends About You
This is a momentous step in seeing if your relationship is serious or not. The moment a guy lets his mates know about you, or more than this, actually raves about you and wants them to meet you, you can tell that he is keen to take your relationship to the next level.
You Both Want The Same Things
The fact that you may have even broached the all important topics of marriage and children shows that this is more than a flash in the pan fling. It’s vital if you are serious about one another that you share the same outlook on life. If you are keen to have babies in the next few years, but he finds the whole concept of parenthood abhorrent, you don’t want to head towards marriage only to find that you need to hire a divorce lawyer because you don’t share the same values. If he doesn’t want kids, don’t arrogantly think that you can change his mind. You can’t. And no marriage will stand the test of time.
You Share Girlfriend Stuff With Him
If you find your boyfriend morphing into a girlfriend as well, this could possibly be the biggest sign that he is a keeper. The fact that you feel comfortable sharing secrets with him, talking about issues you might be having at work as well as your PMS, and he’s happy to listen and offer advice, you could be in for the long haul.
You Both Say ‘I Love You’
The first time you utter those emotionally charged three words can be daunting, but if, after a few months, this becomes the norm and you feel warm and fuzzy every time he tells you, he is definitely appearing more like a soulmate rather than just a mate. If he isn’t shy about his feelings and can express himself emotionally, he may be ready to take your relationship to the next level.
It can be hard to put yourself out there and head out on date after date after date. It’s true that you may have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince, but eventually, he will come. There’s someone out there for everyone, and you could very soon be finding your soulmate.